Many may not agree but yet it could be the truth of true love. True love in how I personally define is the love of Family. The love between you and your Mother, you and your Father, you and your siblings. It is a very idealistic viewpoint in such a 'realistic' world humans are living in. In the world, where things are taken for granted, fades and comes and go. The reality as one would called it, to face the fact of life. But what is fact, who or what created the fact? If a fact could be created and live upon, so does my ideal could be practiced out of my own silent thoughts. You may find this disturbing or sick, but I shall say that in a couple relationship, true love is like the relationship between you and your Mother.
Pure love is a love that is bonded for eternity no matter what. A love so pure that you are willing to go through every single thing with your partner, to support your partner and to shine in each other weakness. Like a Mother and her child, love is always there no matter what happens. There are times when a Mother and her child who are never in good terms, always in conflict with each other, each cannot be patient with each others difference, a lack of understanding of one feelings and thoughts. It grows until the point, a Mother and her child do not communicate with each other nor seem to bother about what each other is doing. But, think, no matter how much you are angry with your mother, do you think of her wellbeing, do you come back home and see her, do you wish your mother "happy birthday", do you be there for her in times of difficulty and so on, yes you do, and so does your mother. You may not do all aforementioned above but in your heart, you care for your mother. That is true love, a love that shall never fade in any times of difficulty, one is Family and that Family is for eternity. Family do not leave Family in a glimpse and begin to treat one another like enemies, Family are tied with an unbreakable chain that no one can see but only your love for your Family. Family conflicts shall never last forever, and forget and forgiveness is always ready for one to give and take.
Same goes in a relationship, true love is there when you treat one another like how you treat your Family, when you look at each other like how you look at your Family. The tantrum you throw, the annoyance each other made, it is all the same with your Family, the conflicts, arguments and difficulties, that is true love, the love of a Family. When one begins to see each other like their own Parents, then one must realize the reason behind it all. It is not because one acted like your Parents, but what you perceive had become a Family viewpoint and that is when a new Family is formed between the pairing of two.
If one cannot love their Family well, then one is not ready for a relationship. If one cannot love one like how one love their own Family, then one is not ready for a relationship. Everything starts from home, the home is the pinnacle guidance to everything. Family is for eternity, the only unbreakable bond, true love. She is my Family \m/.
