Do you realize that you couldn't satisfy everyone in your life? Not everyone can be happy, someone needs to get hurt for someone else to be happy, if not it will be the other way round. You are given a choice to choose between different sector of people in your life especially your friends. Your family are excluded out of it, always try to put them ahead of the rest of all humanity because they are your parents and siblings...
You have different group friends, everyone is your friends. You are always with the one you are close with yet you ignore the one who is not close to you but yet they are trying to be nice to you because they want you as a good friend of theirs. Sometimes putting on a good impression towards others is not really how it works either especially if that impression to made up intentionally to make you look good. But you are afraid to be too much of yourself as you might lose your dignity and pride to others and you know how the world works around with gossips. Unless you do not mind what others think about you???...Lets say you got a plan with your friends but at the same time another group of friends plan another things at d same period with your plan with the other friends, and another group of friends call you out to follow with their plans. One of the group might not be that close and you might be close to the other 2 groups. Thus, you have to choose between both of them, whatever choices you choose, 1 of the group is going to be disappointed over you and you lose the sense of friendship in them towards you. Inspite every choice you make, there will be one of them to go "Yes, he chooses them over us, we are not as important as them to him...let him be..."...there misunderstands happen and the whole world goes tumbling down upon you.
So I guess you get the picture of what I am trying to show???... You cannot satisfy everyone you know. But people should understand that they do not own anyone and that their friends got the rights to be friends with others. You can't expect someone to always be with you every single time and being unhappy of him/her to be away with some others for a moment. Things have a balance in this universe, we should know how to balance spending time with any friends around. Yet, at the same time you know clearly in your heart which friends are close to you and those who can really be considered as FRIENDS instead of just friends.Those who you could count on and those whom you could express who you really are without worries.
Anyway, he chooses whom he wants to be around with and he have his reasons for it. But he will never forget whom his dearest friends who are more valuable than the blazing shimmer of gold, more valuable than words can say and action to show deep down in the black core of his heart.......
i like your post billy! =)
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I was being very very very duno-how-to-put-it-in-words for half an hour last night HAHAHA!!!
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